There's one thing that stands out.
Couples who've been together for many decades usually put the success of their relationships down to things like good communication or tolerance.
Researchers have found that the real issue for most couples is 'emotional warmth'. And yes, you can use the idea at work too.
Do you really just work to put bread on the table?
If so, it’s likely that you are one of the 57% of New Zealanders not engaged in their work*.
It’s a huge economic issue for the country, but let’s set that aside for a moment and consider what those 57% of disengaged workers are losing.