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'You cannot reason people out of an opinion they have not reasoned themselves into.'

That's a modern way of saying what Jonathon Swift observed in 1721. 

The research makes it clear that our reasoning is not entirely logical, but we think it is. 

We treat our own opinions as more logical and well-informed than other people's opinions. We may not go as far as talking about alternative facts and rejecting other people's information or opinions as fake news, but it's only human to struggle with objectivity.

How much of a struggle?

Psychologists have studied more than 90 ways we humans compromise our objectivity. Let's look at a selection.


Think of it as, ‘the extra I give you to thank you for the business’.

It’s pronounced ‘lany ap’ and comes from Spanish with some French influence. You’ll hear it in the southern states of America.

If you were buying, say a couple of pounds of tomatoes from a roadside stall in Louisiana, the owner might measure the two pounds carefully, then add another tomato as lagniappe.

So why do we need some weird foreign word in our business?

It will help your team focus. It may not be easy to spell, but it’s easy to say and it sums up a valuable idea in a single word.

Make lagniappe a routine part of your culture. For many people it's a new way of thinking about their relationships with customers - not just providing what they expect, but focusing on what else they might value.  

Be constantly thinking of ways you could add an extra service, or even a treat your customers will appreciate. Surprise them.

A few words of caution    
It's not lagniappe if it's an obvious marketing ploy. Lagniappe costs you. 'Buy one, get one free' or '20% off for our Club members' are just ways to sell more, There's no surprise or generosity. It's just a deal.

Make lagniappe generous (though not necessarily grand), surprising - and also right for that particular customer.

About Ralph Brown

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Ralph is our founder. He has a background in psychology, television journalism and business.

Ralph's passions are positive psychology and writing. He leads workshops on both and speaks to conferences on the psychology of thriving at work.

Professional Speakers Australia has awarded him its top speaking accreditation, the CSP. He has since been made a life member of Professional Speakers New Zealand.

He has written six books, six e-books and more than a hundred articles on psychology and writing. International research journals have published his articles reviewing the research on resilience.

Ralph lives in rural Canterbury. He is a JP and marriage celebrant and enjoys travelling to French-speaking countries.

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